Sunday, January 18, 2009

Humanity the World Around....by Morgan Honnold

I’m writing this blog about an event that occurred two days ago, which, due to our jam-pack and stimulating schedule, feels like more like a month. We visited the Thai Embassy on Wednesday, 1/14/09, and that is what this blog is about.
Wednesday afternoon…temperatures drop. We head out on a 30-minute walk to an obscure destination, the Royal Thai embassy. Somewhere in the middle of the Georgetown University area we arrive upon a tidy, secure, three-story building that is our destination. Once there, we tumbled inside the twice-secured door, breathless and blustered by our cold and tardy situation. We rushed upstairs and peeled off layers of coats, and enjoyed the consumption of a few Thai treats offered to us by our gracious hosts. We then sat down to a 45-minute breakdown of the roles and functions of the Thai government and Thai Embassy. Our presenters then took questions from the audience, which consisted of about 50 participants of the Washington Center Seminar. The questions were the regular, relevant, smart-sounding inquiries that attentive college students are expected to ask in such a setting, and pertained to things like foreign policy, import/export products, economy, et cetera. But I was waiting to ask a question that had been percolating in my mind since the first time I visited Thailand exactly three years ago….
Rewind. Excuse me as I switch to third person in order to properly perceive this story once again.
January, 2006. 18-year-old Morgan had been working in a children’s home in Bangalore, India for the past five months, and went on a 10-day vacation to Bangkok, Thailand. Once there, she was perpetually impressed by the mega-malls, clean streets, courteous people, and awesome street food! She loved lots of aspects of her experience there, but one reoccurring sight confused and perplexed her. Everywhere, everywhere, everywhere she went, she saw middle-age or old men accompanied by one or two young beautiful Thai girls. Morgan was disturbed by this frequent sight, and asked her friends, who had lived in Thailand for many years, what this phenomenon was. They sadly and gently explained that Thailand has become a leading market in one of the world’s most profitable businesses – human flesh. They explained that most of these girls were prostitutes – not by choice, but by painful and complicated varied circumstances. Morgan was devastated, enraged, and confused at how such blatant and disgusting disregard for the sanctity of a woman’s body and human dignity could be so openly tolerated and accepted. Her friends continued to explain that the level of this corruption infiltrated every tier of Thai life, and greatly contributed to the tourist population. In fact, Thailand is known to many as a prime purchasing destination for this one thing: sex.
Fast-forward.
Two and a half years later, July of 2008…21-year-old Morgan is in India all summer, working alongside her best friend with drug-addicted street kids in Calcutta. They go again to Thailand, to Bangkok and Pattiya, but this time Morgan is armed with a little more information. She has been reading, researching, learning about this thing called Human Trafficking, or the illegal sale and exploitation of human beings. She is gripped by this world-wide epidemic of slavery, and this time, she knows what it is that she’s seeing. She knows what the neon lights and disturbing sights and violated rights is, and she’s still grieved, distressed, and enraged. Some vacation. She can no longer plead ignorance and thereby turn a blind eye to the hopeless plight of millions of people, nor does she want to. But she does not know what to do. She cannot break down brothel doors, rescue ravaged children, redeem the raped bodies and souls. So she prays, and waits, and learns, and informs, and hopes and believes that in order for us to see world-wide restitution of this issue, world leaders have to acknowledge the issue and take unified and convicted action against it. This experience in Thailand is largely why Morgan was so eager and excited to participate in this current experience in Washington.
Fast-forward again, and stop. Right here. Right now. 1/16/09. The Washington Center Presidential Inauguration Seminar students visit Royal Thai Embassy in Washington D.C. Morgan’s group gets to go. And Morgan is elated at the prospect of really hearing, from the “horse’s mouth,” what the government is doing to address this issue. So she raises her had, at first nonchalantly, and then with increasing urgency, prodded by her friend to ask this question that could be controversial, yet is hugely pertinent.
“We’re almost out of time,” they say, “So one more question.” I stretch my hand higher, and when called on, commence: “Thank you. I’ve had the opportunity to visit your beautiful country on several occasions, and have greatly enjoyed my experience. You have a wonderful country to be very proud of. Yet I was disturbed to see the global issue of human trafficking so prevalent there. Could you tell me what the government is doing to counteract this growing issue, and also, does the high participation of wealthy and often high-ranking American, European, and Middle Eastern individuals greatly hinder this issue from being resolved or more aggressively addressed?”There. I asked it. This is what I’ve been wanting to know – if the people who hold the power are doing what it takes to make the change, or if they, like many American politicians, are drunk by their elevated position and removed from the desperate situations of the people which comprise their country. Essentially what I’m asking, and what I’ve been asking, is just this; if I want to counteract social injustice, and see change and hope and freedom brought to the lives of those that the world has deemed dispensable and worthless, should I focus my energies of approach on the bottom-up (by working with grassroots and volunteer organizations), or from the top-up (by advocating change from a position in government itself.)?
The answer I receive was sadly short of satisfying. In the Thai embassy, they expressed awareness to the issue, and to the multi-level approach that any sort of solution must take. The talked vaguely about organizations that help families and girls who are forced into their situations. They responded as they should; professionally, sympathetically, politically. But their regulated response lacked compassion, lacked vision, lacked deep desire and motivation to see this problem rapidly and drastically resolved, not for the sake of the reputation of their nation, but for the sake of the lives destroyed. And this short interaction – my thirty-second question and their one-minute answer - portrayed to me a greater picture of what tragically but frequently takes place in governmental institutions. The leaders lose touch with the people they are designing to serve – is it not curious that our lawmakers and the determiners of literally every aspect of our nation live far removed from and have no grid for the daily life of the millions of people they represent? How, then, can we expect our government or any to operate out of any deeper motivation than their own good and social/moral obligation? Why is a government which is described to be for the people, by the people really just a government – no people truly involved?
I cannot honestly say that I’ve come to any firm conclusion, nor had any brilliant epiphany in regards to my question. I can only say that I and others deeply care, but don’t know where to go to see legitimate, legal changes without losing heart, hope, and the touch of humanity in the long grueling legislative process. It’s not right that the ravaged bodies and souls of millions of innocent victims is not enough to stop every man, woman, and child in their tracks until the exploitation and destruction ends. It’s not right that the physical, spiritual, and emotional wounds are translated into little more than country boundaries and dollar signs in the eyes of policymakers. Conviction, passion, determination are all critical elements of seeing these things come to an end, but there is a missing ingredient, a key component, a “greater than” and “better than” and “other than” solution than what I’m seeing take place right now. Until the time when these bitter tragedies are no more, however, these are the tools we’ve been given, and so I appeal to you to arm yourself with these things also, and change whatever corner of the universe you dwell in.
“Be the change you want to see in the world.” ~ Ghandi

Monday, January 5, 2009

Where Were YOU?

So where were you when the New Year rang in? Many were at One Thing dancing and celebrating the new year, some were with families and friends, but I didn't see many were we were. As the bells chimed, and the ball dropped to ring in 2009 I found myself in one of my LEAST favorite places...WALMART. Can you believe it. But always one to make the most of a seemingly poor situation, my children and I rode the cart down the isles of the grocery crying out "Happy New Year " to all who would listen.
We had spent 4 glorious days surrounded by over 300 children leading and teaching them about the love of Jesus and playing amazing games like PEANUT BUTTER SMASH, AND COTTON CANDY HEAD. But we were exhausted and had wonderful plans to spend all of January 1st watching the extended versions of Lord of the Rings.
It was a promise I had made to Jacob: If he read all 3 books we all would set aside a day to watch the movies together. January 1st was that day and what a day it was.
We would watch a DVD (all the 3 movies were in 2 DVD) get something to munch on, watch another movie, munch some more etc. I actually stayed in my jammies ALL day, dozed in and out a bit. This was FAR from my typical day but I thoroughly enjoyed it (probably won't repeat it for a while).
So what was the spiritual significance of this? Well, I'm not too sure other than the Lord delights when we take time to rest. I did find myself throughout the movies asking the Lord to make me like certain ones of the characters, desiring their perservance, their ability to run and not grow weary, to fight the enemy w/ such tenacity and WIN, to raise the dead. I was reminded of the evil that is raising up out of the depths of the earth even now, and the coming battle.
AND, it is always glorious to spend time with my kiddos.

Hope your New Year was a blessing to you.

Saturday, January 3, 2009

What the Honnold Kids do for FUN...

When I'm not looking, here is what my children do for entertainment. Who needs Xbox, or any gaming devices, who needs movies...we have each other!















Sunday, December 21, 2008

Sweet Baby

As you may or may not know, the Honnold family is spending Christmas in Indianapolis, IN. This is Misty's home state, and the location of much of her family. A big component of our choice to come out for Christmas was the birth of Samantha Kaye-Marie Keifer, Misty's niece's first baby. Samantha was born on December 17, which is also the four year anniversary of the death of Misty's mother, Beverly Tomey. This sad but beautiful day now not only commemorates a finished life, it also celebrates a newly began one. Here are a few pictures of some of our moments with sweet baby...


Samantha Kaye-Marie Keifer (aka sweet baby, aka precious little lamb of God, aka darling little drop of joy and sunshine and goodness...)


Misty with sweet baby....













Meghan with sweet baby...












Morgan with sweet baby....





















Philip with sweet baby...

The Circle of Life...

This past Friday night found the Honnold family seated in anticipation in a downtown Indianapolis theatre, waiting anxiously for the performance of a lifetime to begin. A dear family friend gave us a Christmas gift of tickets to the Broadway production of The Lion King musical. We sat in the Orchestra section, close enough to the stage to see the sweat reflect off the dancers bodies, close enough to nearly touch the elephant as it lumbered down the aisle, close enough to observe every facial gesture of the painted, costumed performers. It was an altogether breathtaking experience, and, although we couldn't take pictures of the performance, we could take pictures of our brochures! And that's nearly as exciting, right?
















And we also photographically documented our reactions post-performance....




All in all, it was an amazing experience. (as our facial expressions so clearly convey:)

Friday, December 19, 2008

Great Honnold Cook-Off


COME INTO OUR KITCHEN PLEASE...LET ME SHOW YOU THE WAY
IT IS THE HOLIDAY SEASON AND I HAVE MUCH TO SAY
THERE ARE COOKIES GALORE
GREAT GOODIES ABOUND
IF YOU PLAN YOUR VISIT RIGHT
GREAT TREATS CAN BE FOUND!





What fun we had on Tuesday. We woke early in the morning, as the snow was falling we became more excited about the events of the day..."WHAT IS THAT" you might ask! It was the Holiday Baking Day in the Honnold House. The Christmas Music was turned way up.


We had time to practice dancing to the holiday music...











Time to lick some icing too...

















There is always time to pause for a picture...
SAY CHEESE (or Mexican Wedding Cookie Please)







Hey Philip...the flour goes IN the bowl...not on your face. We are still trying to teach philip the basics of stirring the dough, rolling it out, etc.









You better Watch Out...You Better Not Cry....You Better Not Pout....I'm Telling You Why....

Jacob Honnold Will Shoot a Wad of Icing In Your FACE!

It was a GREAT day...FULL of lots of laughs, lots of fun, lots of candies and cookies being made: Here's a list of what we made: Mexican Wedding Cookies, Honey Ginger Cookies, Divinity, Good Candy, Pecan Tarts, Sugar Cookies, Pistachio Thumprint Cookies, and I'm sure I'm missing a few.

Sunday, December 14, 2008

VOTE ON YOUR FAVORITE COOKIE

Ceativity Flowed last night at the Honnold House with cookie decorating. As our guests entered the house they were met with peels of laughter and joyful conversation. Then they got a waft of the fragrant soup that had been simmering for hours. As we made our way to the kitchen to dip out a bowl of soup, grab some ribs to much on while drinks were being poured the laughter continued to abound. Then we made our way downstairs to behold tables full of icing, sprinkles, baked cookies and more.









We sat down at the table and began the 3 hour experience of decorating cookies. As other guests arrived they were informed that we were holding a cookie decorating contest. Then the war began...


Unfortunately because of the high level of competitive hormones (the guys) in the room, we could not decide which was the BEST cookie. We needed categories, we needed unbiased judges of which we had NONE. The decision was made to invite the public to join us in this difficult decision. So, take a look at the pictures, decide which you believe is the most creative and put it on the comment. We will tally up the total and make the announcement of the winner on Christmas Day...let the contest begin...




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5 6


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Be sure to look at Philip's hunting post for Morgan's artistic edible interpretation of Philip's hunting trip




Disclaimer: some people don't have cookies in the contest because THEY ATE THEM AS SOON AS THEY MADE THEM!